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Published by Actually Sleeping · Reviewed by Dr. Samantha Abrahamson, PharmD · Review policy · Updated 2026-11-10

My baby is just a bad sleeper. Can Actually Sleeping help?

Parents in this video were sure they had a bad sleeper: preemies, colicky babies, babies waking every 45 minutes and fighting every nap. They describe those same babies putting themselves to sleep and sleeping through. Dr. Sam writes a plan for the baby you actually have, with bootcamp-style coaching before night one, daily 1:1 check-ins and a written guarantee.

What parents who had this worry say

“I just didn’t think I had babies that slept, but the program works.”

“And so the night before we started Actually Sleeping, she actually woke up 10 times, and that’s for real.”

“He would wake up constantly every forty five minutes.”

“Waking up every single hour all night and daytime naps were such a fight.”

“She was just kind of an unhappy baby and was a little colicky.”

“And on night one, she put herself to sleep.”

Why parents decide their baby is a bad sleeper

When a baby wakes every hour for months, it starts to feel like a personality trait. Parents hear that some babies just sleep badly and stop expecting anything else.

The parents in this video believed that too, sometimes about more than one child. What they describe is that their babies had not yet learned to fall asleep on their own, and could.

How Actually Sleeping works with a hard sleeper

Dr. Sam writes the plan for your baby’s temperament and history, including a premature start or a fussy early few months. If something medical is going on, your pediatrician comes first, and coaching works alongside them. Bootcamp-style coaching before night one prepares you for your baby’s particular reactions, daily 1:1 check-ins follow, and naps are coached until solid. The result is guaranteed: “We guarantee that your baby will sleep 8–12 hours through the night within 14 days of consistent, correct implementation of your sleep plan.”

The parents in this video include a mom whose premature baby woke 10 times the night before they started, a mom whose baby woke every 45 minutes, and a mom who was sleeping two hours a night. Each of them got a plan written for that baby by Actually Sleeping, not a generic schedule.

Hear more from client families

Watch all 129 client video reviews on the reviews page. For why a tired baby can fight sleep harder, read overtired baby fights sleep. You can also check that the company is legit before you book.

Book the free consultation and tell us about your baby’s worst nights. That is where the plan starts.

Want this fixed for your baby?

Actually Sleeping is 1:1 coaching: a sleep plan written for your baby by Dr. Sam, bootcamp-style coaching before the first night, and daily check-ins until it is working. 700+ families coached, 129 video reviews, and a written guarantee: 8–12 hours through the night within 14 days, or a full refund.

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Frequently asked

Are some babies just bad sleepers?

Many parents in the reviews thought so about their own babies, including preemies and colicky babies. With a plan written for their baby, they describe those same babies putting themselves to sleep and sleeping through.

My baby was premature. Can Actually Sleeping help?

Yes. Families in the reviews include babies born early. Dr. Sam takes your baby’s history into account when writing the plan, and your pediatrician’s guidance on feeding and health comes first.

My baby wakes every hour. Where would we even start?

With the free consultation. Dr. Sam then writes a plan from a full picture of how your baby falls asleep, wakes, feeds and naps, and the coaching before night one prepares you for what to expect.